So I dated this girl for a few months. I ended it for fear of commitment, stupidly. She was sad about that. I was too.
Tried to get her back a month after we ended it. Almost did, but she was dating someone else (still is - FB official now). We looked into each other's eyes and I'm pretty sure she just wanted me to tell her I loved her, which I didn't do (I was scared).
We stop talking for a month (so it has now been almost 3 months since we ended it, 1 month since I tried, unsuccessfully to get her back), but she keeps posting friendly stuff on my Facebook.
I message her two days ago, telling her I'd still like to stay in contact.
She says that's really odd, she was just talking about me with her best friend, literally when I messaged her.
I ask her why (this is over Facebook). She says she'll call me in an hour.
She calls. We don't talk about anything in particular, not really even why her and her best friend were talking about me. She seemed nervous. I'm sure I was. We talked for a little less than an hour.
Why would she be talking about me? She said it was about the night that me, her and her best friend went out to a show (which was like 3 months ago now). It's the only time that I met her best friend. It just seemed random. She's still dating the other guy though.
Is this the start to a, "well, maybe we should think about getting back together" dialogue? Is it a, "Now we're going to try to become friends" - I couldn't place it.
The conversation was entirely just random stuff - we didn't even really talk about the reason she was supposedly calling me. I probably should have tried to make plans with her for coffee.