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    Have you ever fantasized about someone else

    while ****ing your girlfriend or boyfriend?

    Me, yes. lmao
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    Not with my current boyfriend: he's the guy that turns me on the most, thinking about somebody else would make it less fun for me.

    With my ex boyfriend, yes, I sometimes fantasized about my current boyfriend. I wasn't happy about it, I felt guilty because of it, but I couldn't help it.

    In general, the best sex for me is when I am completely "in the moment", focused on what's happening and nothing else.
    Last edited by searock; 29-07-13 at 07:29 AM.

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    Always with everyone one of them. Actually sometimes I just one of my favorite porn scenes through my head.

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    Yeah I have.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smackie9 View Post
    Always with everyone one of them. Actually sometimes I just one of my favorite porn scenes through my head.
    Lmao.

    Ever yell out the wrong name too?
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    nah............

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    When I was with my ex-boyfriend John, yes. It wasn't really until towards the end of our relationship that I started doing it. But every other time with everyone else? Not at all.

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    No. No man compares to mine
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rowen View Post
    When I was with my ex-boyfriend John, yes. It wasn't really until towards the end of our relationship that I started doing it. But every other time with everyone else? Not at all.
    Do you think by that point you were bored with him and the relationship and that was why?
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    Quote Originally Posted by michelle23 View Post
    No. No man compares to mine

    That is what most peeps would kill to hear their partner say about them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jffs24 View Post
    That is what most peeps would kill to hear their partner say about them.
    What's the point of being with someone if you don't feel that way about them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jffs24 View Post
    That is what most peeps would kill to hear their partner say about them.
    Well I think you should focus all your energy on your partner. It strengthens to bond and sex is so much better that way. Back when I was grieving the loss of a relative, I was kinda like a zombie. Sex was just a release and comforting but I didn't put much into it at the time and I did go through a phase of fantasizing about a stranger. No face, no name lol just a new mysterious man that excited me.. I noticed when I stopped doing that and put all my concentration on my bf that sex was way better, my orgasms became more intense and it was way more passionate.
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    I wish I could ask my girlfriend this question and know that I would receive an honest answer.

    I have fantasized about other women while having sex with an old ****-buddy of mine who had gained a few extra pounds (I also pretty much hated her personality).

    Never have I done it in a relationship though or even thought of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by paze View Post
    I wish I could ask my girlfriend this question and know that I would receive an honest answer.

    I have fantasized about other women while having sex with an old ****-buddy of mine who had gained a few extra pounds (I also pretty much hated her personality).

    Never have I done it in a relationship though or even thought of it.
    Ask her anyhow and see what she replies to ya.
    Obviously you think she is thinking about others when ****in' you?
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    Its better not to ask. I mean if she did say yes it would just make you feel like s**t. You don't need to know every little thing that goes on in your partners head. It would just promote insecurity and arguments if you both always told each other who you find attractive.

    I don't think there is anything wrong with saying "shes pretty" or "shes an attractive girl" or "hes a good looking guy". However, saying he/she is HOT or that you wana f**k this or that person is pushing it wayyyy too far.

    Me and my bf discuss how others look a lot. Example "she looks great for someone who has had 4 kids" or "omg she doesn't look 60, shes freaking gorgeous" or "what is he doing with that girl, she is a b**ch and treats him like dirt, hes a good looking bloke and could do better" etc Neither of us feel jealous or insecure. I know he wouldn't like it though if I said "Charlie Hunnam is f**king gorgeous in green street-sexy man!" Or if he said "that girl across the road is a ride"
    Last edited by michelle23; 12-08-13 at 07:51 PM.
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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