Talk or a nap?

[Jffs24]

How angry would you be if you expected a talk with someone and that person took a 2 hr nap instead?
Scale of 1-10 would it enrage you or don't care - whatever?

To add the other person set that time aside to talk and I forgot about them completely, does that mean I don't care about them at all because I forgot?

[searock]

Depending on how I had communicated to the person that I wanted to talk to them, I would be more or less angry.

In general I would be pretty angry and I would think they don't care much about me. Unless they were really stressed or something.

[basilandthyme]

You completely forgot? Yeah, I'd say that you didn't care about them

[Jffs24]

Depending on how I had communicated to the person that I wanted to talk to them, I would be more or less angry.

In general I would be pretty angry and I would think they don't care much about me. Unless they were really stressed or something.

I thought it was a casual - if I can sort of thing- but I now see to them it was a definite set aside and lets talk time and I forgot about it totally.
I think this is where guys and girls see things differently. She sees it set in stone and for me I see it as if I can I will. Not high on my list of priorities at the time.
I got a 7 for anger off it, lmao? Called rude and an asshole.

[Jffs24]

You completely forgot? Yeah, I'd say that you didn't care about them

Yes, completely. Even though they even reminded me -- never thought about it again and took a nap, silent-ed phone.
I thought after they got pissed off, do I care about them because why did I forget about them so easily.

Made a coffee date for tomorrow, I better mark that down so I don't forget too LMAO

Sometimes you think you care and then your own actions show you, you don't care as much as you thought.
An eye opener.

[searock]

I don't think it's a gender thing... if a guy really wanted to talk to someone and set time aside for it and even actually reminded them of the appointment, I think he would be pissed just as a girl would be if the other person just forgot about it and didn't show up nor answered the phone.

[Jffs24]

It never bothered me though, I have had it done to me too and my reaction is always - cool another time. Because I can always find something to do (like nap, hah?)
I think they thought I was deliberately ignoring, and wasn't the case but even after saying was napping, they didn't believe me.

[BeRad]

I'd be upset about it, and be fairly insistent that you seem sincere about the apology. If you used the "I forgot" thing, and said falling asleep was an accident, I would come up with 50 other scenarios that you find important that you WOULD NOT have forgotten about, or accidentally slept through. Did you try apologizing for not taking the talk too seriously? That's all they want to hear.

[Jffs24]

I did apologize after the fact but that never seems to go over well, harm has already been done to them.