Hi, I'm new to this forum and need a bit of advice... I'm seeing a married man. He's living with his partner and it's unlikely that he can leave because of financial commitments. Also, I get on well with his wife and friends. Us being together would no doubt cause problems among them. I'm so in love with him and I know he feels the same. This is like nothing either of us have experienced before. We both knew from the moment we met that this was something special. I can't give him up no matter how much it hurts to not be with him. Do I just satisfy myself with whatever time we do spend together? Has anyone been in this situation and got the outcome they wanted?
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Thread: Can we be together?
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09-05-05, 12:03 AM #1
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Can we be together?
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09-05-05, 01:33 AM #2
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Number one.... who are you to be taking his wife away from him??
Listen to me hunny... my room mate has been dating a "divorcing man" for years. Shes desperately in love with him, and hes always over here, always with her, but he swore to me he would never ever leave his wife.
Why would you want to be with a man who would cheat anyway? Dont you realize that if hell cheat on a woman he made commitment to, and probably said the same thing to years ago, that he will definately do the same with you because by being with him its telling him that its okay.
Another thing that you and my room mate both dont get. If he hasnt left his wife yet, he wont.
If youre smart. You need to leave now and find a man who will genuinely love you and only you. Not you and his wife. How would you feel if you found out your future husband were to cheat on you with her?
Heres the answer to you and to my room mate. NO YOU CANT BE TOGETHER. He has a life. He has a home with this other woman. You need to slap him in the face for cheating on the woman he married and supposedly loves. Do they have children?? God you dont even want to hear from me if they have children.
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09-05-05, 01:59 AM #3
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Here's a tip.
Originally Posted by Becki
Learn to speak for yourself.
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09-05-05, 03:07 AM #4
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I don't know what you should do but I do know that his wife deserves to know about this.
"Why are you an atheist?"
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09-05-05, 03:34 AM #5
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I always feel so bad for the person whos being cheated on. They dont deserve it at all. A lot of times theyre cheating too much if thats the case why would they be together anyway ya know?
