Originally Posted by
namemyname
Nothing at all - YOU said he was a manipulative douche, not me.
Yes, And, I still think he is (whether intentional or not). Not sure what your point was, name?
It's funny - I posted this on the guy section, only had two guys respond, and it was for a reason. The women advice like women, and the men are more in tune with the male mindset.
whether from a woman or a man, nothing is 100% accurate unless we all get in his brain and he's truthful. I'm old, I've read and seen it all and I know that most men have a much easier time with non-exclusivity then most woman do.
Sorry, but you're really wrong on this - entirely so, actually.
Everything I said is how it all comes across to me. We're all... all of us 'wrong' until proven otherwise. Or... we are all right until proven otherwise by his actions and the end result. All of this is speculation, Name. Mines just not adding up the way you hope it will in the end is all.
I told you I hope it goes your way. I still do. Just go in thinking about everything you've read as being a possibility is all I'm getting at. BTW: I don't think he's a "pig" at all. I said I thought he was a manipulative douche. If I thought he was a pig, i'd have called him that. lol
He's not staying with her, and they aren't seeing each other every day. Its not some big, hot, committed, exclusive, serious relationship, like some here are trying to make out.
how do you even know any of that? His words on a screen? See this is why I say what I am saying. You believe before you even know him.
Yes, Smackie, all I can do, and will do, is wait to see what happens when he gets home. I think he now knows my boundaries with this, and that he has to come home, tell me hes cut her loose, and then its game on.
As I said two pages back: I think that is a good plan. In the meantime, keep your thoughts on reality. You have had some texts, you don't know him and if you want exclusivity, then I guess you have to make sure he's not still entertaining Miss long distance. That's the jist of it all IMO.
Last edited by Wakeup; 08-08-13 at 02:56 AM.
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