Need help to get over ex.

[SqueamishPuppet]

So my ex broke up with me after 3 years and the reason at first was she didn't want to be in a relationship because she had a lot of issues she need to deal with on her own. Two weeks after we broke up a she met another guy who she has been talking to and going on dates with. I can't get over the fact that she is entertaining the idea of a relationship with this guy when she tells me that's not what she needs in her life right now.

After talking too her more I find out she just loved me as a friend and I wasn't what she wanted in a partner. Which I feel is very inconsiderate of my feelings through out the 3 years and she had always had these feelings. I don't really care she is seeing this other guy so much as I care she has moved on from all this way to fast. I realize she was over it before it ended but I wish she would have waited till she moved out first to start dating again. She says it's fine I date other people too but I feel the only reason I want to see other people is to take my mind off her and fill that void in my life. I find it impossible not to care that she is acting like this. The other night we had some really deep conversations about our lives and the night ended with us holding each other crying about not wanting to loose one another in our lives. She belives we can be friendsbit i feel its not going to work out no matter how good we get along. Our future relationships will not be ok with us being friends and spending time together. Maybe someone could shed some light on this situation. I don't know what to do to get over it.

[basilandthyme]

SqueamishPuppet, people need to read this in context with the last thread you wrote http://www.loveforum.net/threads/83204-Is-there-anyway-to-get-her-back?highlight=

In your last post, you said she ended it because you hadn't proposed. Now you're saying she ended it because of her unresolved issues and that she didn't love you. It's time to thank your lucky stars that you didn't propose. Imagine life with someone who wanted marriage so much that she'd marry you even if she didn't love you.

I still say what I did in the last post: You're too young to be tied down. Let her go and wreak her own trail of disaster...and be grateful that you've dodged a bullet

[SqueamishPuppet]

I know and that's because the story keeps changing. She keeps telling me more things and now I don't know what is the truth. I feel she tried to blame it on other things to make me not feel as bad. To make it seem like something was to blame when really it was just her. I am really thankful I didn't marry her but I keep going back and forth. I'm fine and feel good one moment then I am hurt by her actions the next. I truely cared about this person who didn't care about me the same way and it's hard to bite that bullet. Her moving on just stirs up emotions.