Im very sad ex advice :(

[richquattrucci]

So 3 years ago I met the girl of my dreams. We dated for 1 year and then broke up because we started fighting because she got nervous and scared because things were serious so she left me. I was devastated then 6 mo went by and she find me and we rekindled and things were great untill another year in we started fighting again because she was lieing and I was being controlling. She left again a year went by to today last week she contacted me and said she missed me can you come see me. So I did and we spent the whole night had sex and made up and were both so happy. The next day I drove her to work. She said wed have dinner on monday. I heard from her that day but the next 2 days after I didnt here anything. So sunday night i asked what time we should meet up she said im prob gonna have to work late. Like my old self like a dumbass I flipped out cus I assumed she was blowin me off. She got mad the next day and he even said it wasnt like that and she even had the day off to go but forget it now. I felt bad tryed to say sorry it didnt work. I sent her flowers and she didnt respond. Today we got in a fight and she basically told me to leave her alone and to grow up. I dont understand in bed she wanted to fix things and make them better now were back to this. Im so sad and ive been tryin to text her to fix it but nothing works I guess its just time to say goodbye but somehow we always come back I just wanna be with her I think shes scared shes so hot and cold. Advice

[Ginger2013]

Not knowing you two, and reading what you wrote, I think you can agree there's a definite pattern right? Could it be she's coming back to the "sure thing" (you) when she's lonely? That up and down stuff would drive me nuts, not ever knowing if it's for good this time or not. I just got out of a rollercoaster relationship, it's so hard to do, but at least in my case, it's best to move on, think of it, how many chances are you willing to give her/the relationship? Each time you get hurt. Hot and cold means someone isn't considering your feelings, just talking from experience.