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    Oh and just to make your time go faster: You didn't agree with me on page one... you said this:
    I think those are all excuses. Hes not interested in a relationship with you. Id cut him off and see how he reacts. Its wrong that you have been friends for so long and he knew you had feelings. He shouldnt have slept with you without making his intentions clear. He used you knowing you were vulnerable and wanted more. Hes no friend.

    Cut contact with him. If he doesnt ask you out on a proper date then-forget him
    Which is not the same as talk to him in fact, "cut contact" is the exact opposite of talk to him.

    Now, I'm sure you're going to say you meant cut contact AFTER you talk to him and he can't give you what you want, but that's not what you originally said.

    ... Your floor.
    Last edited by Wakeup; 11-08-13 at 12:05 AM.
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    I don't care. I'm just defending myself. He thinks he knows me from reading a few of my posts. He doesn't.
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wakeup View Post
    Oh and just to make your time go faster: You didn't agree with me on page one... you said this: Which is not the same as talk to him and then let him go if he can't/won't give you what you want.
    I agreed that she should have discussed whether this is going somewhere or not and so should he. I agreed that they were both wrong.
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    Quote Originally Posted by michelle23 View Post
    I don't care. I'm just defending myself. He thinks he knows me from reading a few of my posts. He doesn't.
    He's basing his thoughts about you on how you post and what you say in them. This has nothing to do with knowing you "personally" but rather how you post and what you say in them. It's quite obvious, and it doesn't need to be said that none of us know anyone in here until or if we ever meet them and get to know them personally. Just sayin.
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    Quote Originally Posted by michelle23 View Post
    I agreed that she should have discussed whether this is going somewhere or not and so should he. I agreed that they were both wrong.
    Do you agree that you didn't actually post as if you agreed, though?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wakeup View Post
    He's basing his thoughts about you on how you post and what you say in them. This has nothing to do with knowing you "personally" but rather how you post and what you say in them. It's quite obvious, and it doesn't need to be said that none of us know anyone in here until or if we ever meet them and get to know them personally. Just sayin.
    lol no he is psycho analyzing me and acting as if he can tell a lot about me just by reading my posts. Example: your relationship is a fantasy, you don't have a bf, its all made up, you have no adult experience in the dating world, your past teen relationships don't count, you cant comment on this or that as you lack experience. You are too emotionally immature to not control your man with boundaries, you are too paranoid to allow your man to meet other women alone coz you dont trust him and so on. Obviously not worded in this way but you get the gist.

    I dont care what he thinks but if he has something to say-I will respond.

    Quote Originally Posted by Wakeup View Post
    Do you agree that you didn't actually post as if you agreed, though?
    Possibly, I cant remember what I wrote. I'll look back and read.

    Edit: Your right. I didn't say I agree or disagree but I did say they were both wrong.
    Last edited by michelle23; 11-08-13 at 12:21 AM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by michelle23 View Post
    Possibly, I cant remember what I wrote. I'll look back and read.

    Edit: Your right. I didn't say I agree or disagree but I did say they were both wrong.
    Thank you for that partial admission.

    Now.. Must be only about 10 mins left and yur outta there.
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    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    Quote Originally Posted by michelle23 View Post
    lol no he is psycho analyzing me and acting as if he can tell a lot about me just by reading my posts. Example: your relationship is a fantasy, you don't have a bf, its all made up, you have no adult experience in the dating world, your past teen relationships don't count, you cant comment on this or that as you lack experience. You are too emotionally immature to not control your man with boundaries, you are too paranoid to allow your man to meet other women alone coz you dont trust him and so on. Obviously not worded in this way but you get the gist.
    That's pretty darn close to being very accurate to what I think of you, except you left out that I am 99% sure that you are posting under several different names, Add that and you are spot on. Good Work!

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    Quote Originally Posted by horndog View Post
    That's pretty darn close to being very accurate to what I think of you, except you left out that I am 99% sure that you are posting under several different names, Add that and you are spot on. Good Work!
    I only have one username. And I don't care what you think. You have been on this forum maybe a month or two months.. You formed that biased opinion based on one thread. And you know nothing about me, my life, my relationship or what goes on in my head. You can think what you want
    Last edited by michelle23; 12-08-13 at 08:27 PM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by michelle23 View Post
    I only have one username. And I don't care what you think. You have been on this forum maybe a month or two months.. You formed that biased opinion based on one thread. And you know nothing about me, my life, my relationship or what goes on in my head. You can think what you want
    Thanks for your permission, but I really did not need it. And no, I formed my opinion of you from many threads. Have a great day and be careful to not fall off your flying unicorn in fantasyland. C ya

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