So this isn't my first post on this situation. Basically, to re iterate quickly..
I was alone for 2 years, mostly by choice (now I remember why lulz) and because I made a dumb decision to pack up and leave my hometown therefore leaving me in an antisocial situation. In short, I moved home. Met a girl... and I don't know whatsup, I must have been desperate because there were red flags FROM THE START. Her parents are unbearable at this point, I avoid her house at all costs. Instead of raising there daughter to be an independent strong individual, they created a HIGHLY dependent paranoid sheltered one. They worry about every thing, they check up on her like 10 times a day, they ask her what she ate, how she feels, when shell be home (like every single time) and it annoys her as much as me.
Lately, I just don't feel excited to see her, shes consumed my life and I don't know how to get away. She joined my gym, pretty much expects me to workout with her all the time because I didn't lay down any ground rules, and I did so at first. connected with some of my friends, shes pretty much added and followed every single person I know on social media. She's negative, and naggy if I so much as like a photo or status, she thinks im trying to give other people attention lulz. I feel restricted, and worried all the time. If I go out, she wont leave me alone. I don't wanna text you all day, or call you at 11-12 and leave the place im at which is noisey cause you want to sleep early, You should of came out.
Now heres the hard part. I don't know, why im so weak lately..
I literally feel like, im with her, because I don't think she can handle a breakup.
She has no real or true friends, just acquantances. She has it hard at home since her parents are f'ed in the head.
It seems like, I just lie and lie and lie. Like Oh yeah, I miss you to. Oh I love you so much. You don't ever wanna lose me? Awh me either. Like I feel to awkward to say anything CAUSE she is a nice girl. I wish I woulda never dated her, and been friends. Shes a great person. But eff me, I did.
I broke up with her once, for like... a month. but I run into her at the gym, instead of being mad awkward.. I just said hi, kept moving along. I ended up, missing her when I saw her, made a spontaneous decision and regretted it. We got back together and within 2-3 weeks I regretted it.
Same deal recently. I was drunk and told her how I really felt after she bugged me until 7 am (I flipped out honestly)
We had a "talk" I went into it thinking, I gotta end it im not happy. She does these jedi mind tricks, making me think I got this amazing girl who would never give up on me, and she'll give me space, and honestly im a when she cried cause I DO CARE ABOUT HER.
I feel like im just not ready, im in college, this stress in the back of my head is draining me, and distracting me from my prioritys.
I know I cant do it in person anymore. Ill prob get stuck in this pattern, where I push her away, and cause fights, to formulate a breakup because im to weak to just say hey, I don't feel the same anymore and not listen to her side of it. (her side is like, a sales pitch of why I shouldn't give up)
I literally feel f'ed, and I tempted to like, block and delete everyone whos a mutual friend, switch gyms (which honestly sucks I love my gym) maybe get a new identity, grow a beard. Change the 6 on my mailbox to a 9. Like god damn.
-Rant ended.