I fantasize about others at times. I don't know if my gf does or not as the subject has not come up but frankly I don't really care, she can think whatever she wants if it gets her off.
We do roleplaying sometimes, which is something pretty much every couple does if they stay together long enough, and what you're doing there is exactly that, pretending that you/your partner/both of you are someone that he/she/both of you are not and even taking it a step further by acting the part out and working it into the sex.
Yes. When you've been with someone for 36 years... George Clooney or Richard Gere has joined us in the sack lol... I'm sure hubby is in like flint with Jane Fonda as well... She's been his Boing girl since he was a teenager and the movie Barbarella came out.
If you young people ever get past the honeymoon stage I'm almost certain someone other then your current will be fatasized about now and again.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
Role playing doesnt necessarily have to mean pretending to be someone else. It could be acting out a fantasy too like "lets pretend its our first time" or that we just met -two strangers etc
whatever your comfortable with
"Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".
I've done it.
Not with my current bf though, but I'm sure he has with me.
Some people need to get a boyfriend who they are actually attracted to. How sad to think of another while doing it.
A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything
She uses logic and manages her emotions
She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them
She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions
A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything
She uses logic and manages her emotions
She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them
She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions
Then you're blowing some guy for free? lmao.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
I guess the real issue would be, who are you thinking of, and why? For example, you meet someone you think is attractive, you begin to develop feelings for them even though you are in a relationship, and you fantasize about them rather than your partner. This is obviously wrong. On the other hand, you are in a healthy relationship, and you fantasize about Johnny Depp, lol. Clearly different.
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A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything
She uses logic and manages her emotions
She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them
She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions
Last edited by Wakeup; 13-08-13 at 06:18 AM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion