Last night my boyfriend was upset with me because I wasn't in the mood to have sex. I was lying in the bed and he came in from the shower and I was tired in all honesty. I don't like being waken up for sex if I'm really tired also. He initiated it by sliding behind me and kissing under my neck. I told him that I would take care of him in the morning and he was agitated because he rolled on his side and didnt touch me all night. This morning I slid behind him and told him to come on but it had to be a quickie because I had to get going. He said don't worry about it. I hardly ever deny him but when I do and he feels like I don't have a valid excuse he's upset. I feel as though I don't need an excuse and if I don't feel like it, that's reason enough. Why are men like this about sex? Women how do you respond to this? I love sex with him but why be upset over being denied sex, oral or anything else? I don't want this to become a problem.