She has co-dependency issues-in other words DOORMAT. You are her emotional tampon and you are enabling her to stay with a cunt while you wipe her tears and say "there there" and pat her back-telling her what she wants to hear like "oh you can do better" blah blah blah
the reality is she chooses to stay in this situation even though she knows he is using her so technically this IS her fault..
You need to stop being her b**ch. This girl obviously has issues-low self esteem, likes drama, no sense of self worth, enjoys being the centre of attention while you feel sorry for her.
Your too nice and too good for her. She likes men who treat her like dirt and you will never give her the drama she craves. She needs to work on herself and learn on her own that she can do better. Thats the only way you will ever stand a chance.
My advice: next time she runs to you-tell her straight she is a doormat and she is the only one who can change that. Tell her she chooses to stay with a guy who makes her miserable and its her own fault if he keeps hurting her. Tell her your sorry but you cant do this anymore and tell her to give you a call if she gets over her co-dependency issues and ever decides she would like a real man who doesnt treat her like a piece of meat. Till then goodbye
ignore her and move on.
Trust me she loves the drama and the attention and people feeling sorry for her. My cuz was her 6months ago.. When we stopped caring and stopped enabling her and told her its her own fault-she dumped him.
If she dumps him and runs to you-tell her your not gonna be a rebound-that she should be alone for awhile until shes sure that she wants a long term relationship with you.
"Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".