An Endless Cycle

[Only-virgins]

Well... if one person is secure and another is not... or if the one person is emotionally immature (my ex) it wont work. You have to be able to communicate and maturity is what that takes,

That makes sense. I meant to ask though what you mean by "secure". To be secure means to be sure of something right? sure of what?. I agree on the maturity part but some people are very quick to judge and call others immature fast. For example I used to be a really stupid kid, now I just say what I mean and try to be honest about everything while being as sincere and kind about it as possible. I talked to a person I have not talked to for a long time and they called me to my face immature with out trying to find out if I changed...people do change in some ways.

[LightOn]

To be secure means to be sure of something right? sure of what?

More kinda opposite of insecure, secure with oneself as you can say. Think along the lines of security, you feel secure when you have it. Secure is when your able to be your own security guard and can keep your own emotions in check.

[Junket]

I wish someone new would hurry up and preoccupy my mind from all the pain I am feeling.

See following quote:

If the girl ever starts to have doubts, he'll just break down and express his undying love for her, and of course, she'll feel so special that she'll stick around for more abuse.

If she does leave, once again, she feels vulnerable and goes out lookin' for somebody else who can provide her with quick fix of "security".

Don't fall victim to continuing the cycle.