to capture my love before its too late...

[mwells73]

Well to put it in a nutshell..becuz wht I originally started writing I lost the whole page so I have start all over.been in relationship for.over 10 yrs have two kids.had good and bad times.I was the breadwinner he never did anything well not.as much.the love got real sour and dry.well for.me.not for him he was comfortable becuz everything was being done.he was like a teenager son on top of my kids.reunited with an old.love of.mines.hes in the.military we hit off swell.I fell back in love with him instantly he did too.went back to the.military twice since we.reunited one time.for a year and the.other time for abt 18 -mos..thru out the whole time I've stayed right there and helped supported him.he wants to move to the next step in our relationship which I do too.thts living together but he is currently away in the military when he comes home thts wht we will do.but the only thing tht is holding me back is my ex comes back every now and then becuz he has no where to go and is currently awaiting a job to get.tht chapter is done there is no love there tht means no sex whatsoever.I look at it as helping him out right??.and he knows abt my new boyfriend.but I want my ex to be gone before my boyfriend comes back home from the military which is in November.im in love with my new boyfriend and im not letting nothing stop it.but how should I go abt this.I want my ex gone..

[michelle23]

Tell him you have been a mother to him for ten years. Now it is time for him to grow up and look after himself and his children. Tell him to be a f**king man for once in his life and get out of your life so you can start living it. Tell him you want a man to look after you for a change coz you are sick of always being the responsible one and you are not doing it anymore. You will have to be firm with him. Hes a leech and he wont go away until you make it clear that ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! Put your foot down

[pcmaster]

Just set the date on which he have to leave. Like give him few days or few weeks but be punctual. If hes not gone then trow his stuff out and lock the doors. Just like you did with your pussy.