Hi, im 24 and my girlfriend is 27, although she is slightly older there is no mental age gap, we see eachother at the same level and we have been together for a year.
We've recently started our own businesses, however mine is internet based and doesn't require as much maintenance as hers.
We have a great relationship, always laughing, intimate every time we see eachother, we talk and understand eachother, now the problem is we used to see eachother near enough every day this then became every few days, to a week and more recently starting to creep towards a fortnight.
I feel i'm far from a selfish person, i have and always will give her any space she needs and i know she appreciates that.
Lately she hasn't been giving herself any time off, she has a busy workload but she just tries to plough through instead of working out a plan and therefore makes it very difficult for us to see eachother as often as we'd like, i know this bothers her as much as me but as you can imagine i see ways around it by organizing and working out a plan and set days/hours but thats not in her nature.
I am madly in love with this woman and i know that she feels the same way, but at this rate i'm going to end up being distant and not help it, to the point that i've had enough of her lack of effort to see me and i say goodbye.
This is NOT what i want to do, i can literally picture my whole life with her, she's just become such a workaholic that i never know where i am with her, which is stressing me out and giving me sleepless nights.
I just need some advice, like how would you guys deal with this?