How should I play this!?

[ladedadedalala]

iv only had one proper boyfriend and everyone since has been the typeof guy that messes you about as in things go great for so long but nothing ever becomes that serious. I have been friendly with a guy that works in my gym and he was really excited when we started hangin out sayin he really liked me and couldnt believe i was single bla bla. we were textin a fair bit and i knew he couldnt reply much because he is reallybusy because of his job but its like before he wasnt happy i didnt act keen enough now hes saying its off putting that he feels he has to reply to me all the time ( im a big texter) when normally when someones liked me they want to speak evenif its just tobe very random! We have our first date tomorrow just after this whole thing about texting too much so i dont know how i should be with him tomorrow I think i really like him and dontwant to blow it!

[Cerby]

Why are you spending all of your time texting him? Did you get mad at him for not replying?

I see a clingy needy girl here, and I would be off-put by it too. Stop texting, start dating, and get with the program here.

[Rowen]

Um...first of all, back off and give him his space with your texts. Second, breathe.
Last, but not least, tomorrow, just act natural. Be yourself, but don't suffocate him by feeling the need to fill every single silence with you chattering at him... Just try to make conversation, but don't force it upon him. Who knows? Maybe when he sees what you're like in person again, he'll give you a little bit more of a chance.

Also, totally off topic, but for future reference...make yourself busy. The guy I currently have feelings for and I text throughout the day, but we're not back and forth every second of it. It'll maybe be a text in the morning, a reply two hours later, etc etc...and you know why it works for me (because I was originally a big texter too)? Because I keep myself busy. I do my creative writing. I fuel up my car. I make myself some food....anything really. But I keep myself BUSY, and so far we haven't had any problems like that. It's just a tip.