Ok my story is. I met an awesome girl in my local about 2 weeks ago, last weekend she asked me to spend the weekend her with her. We both agreed before hand that we weren't looking for anything serious just some fun. This was a bit strange for me as I have never done anything like that before. To cut a long story short we made love for most of the night and again in the morning. When we were talking the day after we both realised that there was a massive connection between us that spark that can light up any darkness. However now she seems to have gone cold on me and totally confused can anyone help?
Maybe I should flesh it out a bit, we were pretty much texting non stop till the other day she told me I was too much of a nice guy whatever that means. To be honest I'm just a normal guy. I have a nice side and a darker side. This situation has really thrown me into turmoil though. I like the girl a lot but neither of us are ready for a relationship and I don't know if she's just as scared as I am about the whole thing, the problem is I'm due to go to the club today and I have no idea whether she will be there and if she is I have no idea what to do if I see her. I don't want there to be any bad feeling between us or awkwardness so I guess I'm just asking for any opinions on how best to proceed with the whole thing. I would really appreciate any feedback. Thanks.