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Thread: Why don't most men like to cuddle after intimacy?

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    I never minded cuddling after but usually liked to get up and eat too. Something for us both, same as peeps who like to smoke after. I'd think 15 mins of cuddling is alright.
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    hmmm jffs you made me hungry. Would love pizza after afternoon sex.. Plan for Sunday
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    The only time I had sex, I discovered that cuddling with a girl can be very difficult. You gotta find where your other arm can rest comfortably and it takes a lot of shuffling and sometimes the heat...Or maybe I am just so inexperienced that only I would still be thinking about this every day.
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    Quote Originally Posted by YoungCosmo View Post
    The only time I had sex, I discovered that cuddling with a girl can be very difficult. You gotta find where your other arm can rest comfortably and it takes a lot of shuffling and sometimes the heat...Or maybe I am just so inexperienced that only I would still be thinking about this every day.
    I still have trouble getting my arms organised after 20 years with my hubby.....especially at present because I have to wear a splint on one hand to sleep . It does get somewhat easier though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by YoungCosmo View Post
    The only time I had sex, I discovered that cuddling with a girl can be very difficult. You gotta find where your other arm can rest comfortably and it takes a lot of shuffling and sometimes the heat...Or maybe I am just so inexperienced that only I would still be thinking about this every day.
    lol you over complicated it. You could just lie on your back and let her rest her head on your chest and wrap your arm around her and talk for awhile. And when you fall asleep you can spoon
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    iid think most guys would cuddle with their gf's after, you don't cuddle a 1 night stand, you probably just have sex and leave, same as with a prostitute, pay and leave, you don't cuddle.
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    Some people are big cuddlers, some are not. dont read too much into it.

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    I love to cuddle and I tell my new gf, when I get one, that this is a requirement.

    Does it depend on how much the man likes the woman in other instances?
    No it has nothing to do with how much they love you. They might just be extra tired.
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