Shut the **** up and mind your own business IS helpful advice for you.
Telling the whole world would be blabbering. Itching to blabber just means you want to really badly.
No one accused you of being disloyal. For someone claiming not to be a drama queen, you certainly know how to make a mountain out of a mole hill. Marilyn Monroe avatar coupled with the fact your username is misspriss isn't helping your case either. You asked for our insight, we gave it. Don't bitch just because you don't like it.