How to get her back? I need help!

**TLD** · 01-09-13, 10:11 AM

So here is the situation. My girlfriend is going through a lot of stresses from her school and her mother's illness. So she decided for us to "take a break". My immediate respond was to tell her that I will be there to support her, but she refused and say she needs some space to deal with this alone. So I agreed that we should break up and wait for thing to get better and maybe we can start again. It has been couple of days since that happened and I'm feeling really depressed and I really want us to be together again. Is there something I can say to her so that she take me back and we could deal with this together? I really love this girl.

**4 ratties** · 01-09-13, 11:44 AM

I'm confused because when you are stressed, you need support and love more than ever. So why woul u guys break up? Shouldn't she want u to be there for her? Either you are bringing her more stress, she's super depressed and pushing everyone away, or she's not sure about her feelings for u anymore. Or maybe all three. Idk. Idk her so its hard to tell. Just seems very strange to break up with your bf because life is stressful. Life IS stressful. You don't break up with ur bf when that happens unless he is causing more stress. Something else is up. Just my opinion. U need to talk to her and ask her why a break is necessary right now.

**TLD** · 01-09-13, 12:04 PM

That what I though to but she's a good girl and I don't think she would cheat on me.

**4 ratties** · 01-09-13, 01:47 PM

I didn't say she would cheat on you..

**Ginger2013** · 02-09-13, 02:21 AM

Sounds like she's making excuses for the breakup. I don't think it has to do with school or her mother, I think she wanted to end it and is trying somehow in her own logic, to let you down easy.