Originally Posted by
Indestructible
I've watched as guys who are immature, unintelligent, and/ or "ugly" date and get women just fine. I've watched as guys with "bad attitudes" have no problem getting women. The more I see this, and the more I continue to fail to even find one girl to date, the angrier I get.
I just don't understand. Why not me? Why can't I be "that" guy? What is so wrong with me that I'm just not worth it? What is it about me that makes me "undateable"? Why can guys that have less to offer do better in this area than I can?
If we remember your previous posts, there are a number of reasons you're not THAT guy.
1. your unwillingness to learn small talk. (just stop with the excuses and buy some books - or even better, do a course)
2. your need to know a girl before you get out on a date with her. (the dating process is how you get to know a girl. If you don't like her, then move on)
3. (I could be wrong here) are you the poster who avoids social situations and wants a girl who does the same???
The reasons you're not getting the girls are obvious. The real question is: what practical measures will you take to address the causes?
Edited to add: you're actually in a very fortunate position. There are many posters who can't figure out why they can't get a date and we can't guess either. But you? You know where it's going wrong and are therefore in a position to address the problems.
Last edited by basilandthyme; 05-09-13 at 01:10 PM.
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