My boyfriend and i rarely talk now, we used to talk every single day but when college started he couldn't commit to it. I don't blame him for this but he seems to treat me very differently, he doesn't say thank you when i do something for him, he rejects my gifts, he doesn't say bye when we part and he half listens when i share my struggles with him. Because of all this, i feel like he is uninterested in me now and i feel like there's something wrong in our relationship.
Everytime i asked him about it, he will say "chill!" or "i'm very stressed", he didn't even bother to show me assurance. Worse part is, i asked him out for a date twice and he couldn't make it last minute, he is not guilty that he declined the dates. Am i being inconsiderate and just longing for his affection? or is this unhealthy for the relationship? Thank you! all help is appreciated