Hot and Cold Women... :(
Here's a question that I'm sure many of us have been through.
I've asked it once in the question about hormones...
Do these hormones make a woman run hot and cold too? I just don't get it.
And I know I am not imagining things here. She's moody as hell, and seems to have become distant with me. When I tell her I respect her space...she argues that she does not want space. Things continue (distance) and then I give her space out of a lack of anything else to do. The distance goes away almost immediately, and she totally beats a path to my door. Shes totally interested in sex, but tells me I am driving her crazy talking about it with her.
So I tell her I will stop, and she tells me not to! Our sex life is fine, and actually she wants more from me. But I told her that sex for me is a mixture of emotional and phyisical. And she agrees....then goes distant again. We actually had a fight because she said I was ignoring her (for one day???). I got tired of calling her all the time and not getting through to her. I guess she missed my voicemail? Emails too....we used to be 2 to 1 ratio (2 me 1 her). Now its like 5 to 1. And if I stop this too...she says I am angry at her.
Anger is not the word....its called being totally confused and frustrated.
Any ideas?
BTW...she is an older lady...late 40's. Could it be menopause starting?
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