How do I tell him how I'm feeling?

[Julia51423]

Okay so this is a very serious issue... Well, I mean, please take it seriously. I just got a new boyfriend, and it has been a little less then two weeks since we started going out. At first he was all over me... Texting me all the time, always smiling when he sees me, asking to hang out. Also, we have already kissed and made out quite a few times.... But for the past few days he has been acting .... Well, different. It's almost like he's being cold with me. He doesn't look happy to see me, and he hasn't been texting me like at all and when he does he makes no effort to keep the conversation going. He has even started being kind of rude. Also, today was the worst bc he ALWAYS visits me at my locker at my school and today he didn't, and I know he didn't forget. Also, he's not answering his texts today and idk why. So anyway, OBVIOUSLY something is up... I can't really deny it anymore. Sooo basically the issue is, he is my first boyfriend ever so I'm really inexperienced and new with this stuff, and idk what to do. I want to talk to him about it but the very thought makes my stomach turn because I'm not really good at expressing my feelings. I also know I probably should avoid doing it over text because i just feel like he could more easily lie or the situation will be less meaningful through text. But I don't know what to say? And when is a good time to tell him? I am just totally lost in how to go about this... Should I just ignore it or should I just tell him everything I'm feeling right now. I need help


Oh yeah also, why do you think he's acting like this? I know nothing can be for sure, but what are your opinions on this?

[Maple1714]

You should wait until you see him next, and then just ask him why he has been distant. Were you 2 close friends before you started the relationship? Boys are just dumb sometimes...lol. There could be a million reasons why he has become distant. The important thing to do here is look out for yourself. Be strong and wait until you get a chance to ask him in person what changed? Hear him out, but honestly you should move on and focus on school work/hanging out with your friends. A nice guy will come along who wont do the "fade".

The Fade (urban Dictionary)- "When someone in the relationship starts losing interest and keeps you hanging until they dump yo'ass"
I'm feeling the fade... she used to want to jump my bones all the time.