Can a someone be in love and then fall in love again in 4 months?

[msloveydovey]

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He has told me that the only woman he has ever truly loved was me. He fell in love with me after a month. In the beginning he had this bracelet for an ex-girlfriend, and he was still texting her telling her he misses her ect.. We had a spat about it twice, before he finally blocked the number. I didnt think much of it since he said he mainly saw her as a friend and he didnt care about her like that. That was until recently, I read a message he wrote to a friend saying he loved his ex-girlfriend very much and plans to marry her if he can. This message was maybe 4 to 5 months before he met me and fell in love. He treats me very well and wants to get married. I love him too. I just want to know that his love isnt shallow and that he wont fall out of love as fast as he falls in love. He says im special and all, but from what ive noticed in his past, hes thrown "I love you" around alot. Lately I haven't felt special, I just feel like another girl he so called loves. Also do you think im being unreasonable, and unfair?

[4 ratties]

How did someone have a text message still from over two years ago?

[msloveydovey]

How did someone have a text message still from over two years ago?

he has messages from back when he was in 10 grade in high school and hes had well over four years of college...he hasnt even changed his number since he was 13

[Boisdevie]

Lately I haven't felt special, I just feel like another girl he so called loves.

Isnt' that the real issue here? So why don't you feel special?

[4 ratties]

Wow that seems odd. But alright..well he's been with you for 2 whole years. He must think your special.. Is this the only thing that makes u not feel special or are there other things going on?

[msloveydovey]

He treats me very well when we are togather.. Je troes his best to keep me happy and all. He has done alot for me and i for him. The thing tjat kicked off me not feeling special to him was him and his flirting online, our relationship has gotten to the point of endong because he would flirt online with womwn and exchanging pictures. He even took ot as far as having girls atrip for him via webcam. Im sure he hasnt xheated on me physically. But i emotionally feel btetrayed by it. He says he is working on himself, and its a problem he has been struggling to stop for years now. He says he sees it as porn and he had become adocted to it as a way to cope with stresses. Over the past rwo years i have been struggling and dealing with his lies and now i just dont trust him. I dont believe that im special to him..especially since hes done this with every woman he has been with.
I love him. i know he loves me. hell he cried like a baby probably worst than me, ironically, everytime he hurt me. I guess thats where me not feeling special anymore stems from. Now after all this i just wonder is he truely in love with me as he says he is. I just feel like if he loved me as much as he stays..why dodnt he stop if he knows it was hurting me. then hes told me lies about his past relationships and claimed women to just be friends when they were ex girlfriends exct

Tldr: he lied about cybersex says he has porn addiction..told so many lies i dont trust him and now i dont feel special. nor do i trust him.

[lyricist.]

Very odd....

[ditheone]

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[lalalita]

He treats me very well when we are togather.. Je troes his best to keep me happy and all. He has done alot for me and i for him. The thing tjat kicked off me not feeling special to him was him and his flirting online, our relationship has gotten to the point of endong because he would flirt online with womwn and exchanging pictures. He even took ot as far as having girls atrip for him via webcam. Im sure he hasnt xheated on me physically. But i emotionally feel btetrayed by it. He says he is working on himself, and its a problem he has been struggling to stop for years now. He says he sees it as porn and he had become adocted to it as a way to cope with stresses. Over the past rwo years i have been struggling and dealing with his lies and now i just dont trust him. I dont believe that im special to him..especially since hes done this with every woman he has been with.
I love him. i know he loves me. hell he cried like a baby probably worst than me, ironically, everytime he hurt me. I guess thats where me not feeling special anymore stems from. Now after all this i just wonder is he truely in love with me as he says he is. I just feel like if he loved me as much as he stays..why dodnt he stop if he knows it was hurting me. then hes told me lies about his past relationships and claimed women to just be friends when they were ex girlfriends exct

Tldr: he lied about cybersex says he has porn addiction..told so many lies i dont trust him and now i dont feel special. nor do i trust him.

I think how quickly he fell in love with you is the least of your worries.

I mean come on now.

[dickriculous]

This guy has marriage material written all over him. You need to get him to propose to you asap. Go crazier in bed if that's what it takes - like maybe stick a finger in his ass and rub his prostate or something.