I met a girl about 4 months ago. We became friends and started to show interest in each other. We would talk each day for those 4 months. The problem was she was in a relationship that seemed to be ending. I told her she in her own time could decide what to do. All I know is they seemed to be going through an extended rough time. They have been together for 4 years, the last two years not being great. He became irritable often with her during the last two years. Anyway, in the end she decided to give him a last chance and even told him about me. Normally, he would react negatively to such news, but said he understood and has since changed his tune. She even thanked me and said they were able to open up to each other more and get things back on track after 2 hard years. I mentioned she should give her relationship more time to see if this a permanent change. My feeling is these changes are never permanent. Your thoughts?