hrmm.... dramas is right. atfirst i was thinking... whoa, split personality, then i realized YOU got caught.

however, to jed, being that your problem is now open, there is only one thing that you can do about it. talk to her and explain yourself. you've probably already done this, being that this thread is old and there isn't much else i can tell you.

tara, shit happen, and i know. i can see that you were very upset by this, as would anyone else. however, get over it. i'm sure that you have gotten into many fights with your bf before. i'm also sure that many of these fights were about the same things. you probably knew somewhat of how he felt about you. if you didn't however, well this is your eye opener. you now know what he expects of you, and you can either chnage your ways or leave him. personally i don't really care what you do, it's your life.

for the both of you, don't stay together for your children. true, i believe that a child should have both parents around as much as possible, however if all they will see if fighitng and bickering, then split. a child shouldn't be raised in an environment where all they see is negativity. if you're able to work this out, then all the better for the both of you, and if not, then the door is only a few steps away.

raverboy