Am I just being Paranoid?

[Orioles1744]

So i've been talking to this girl for 3 month we use to hang out almost every day. Now we hang out about 4 times a week. She works until 7:30 most days and gets up early. When we first started texting we would text a lot now I text her in the morning and when she gets off work we talk a little and I always text her goodnight. I thought maybe I was texting her to much and being to clingy, so the next day I didn't text her and was going to wait until she text me. I thought I would be waiting all day for that text but I got it in the morning before she started work. She said morning and I said good morning back then she asked if I was ok I said ya why she said just checking and she said how she slept really good for once I told her I wish I could and she sent me a picture of herself and told me to cheer up. Yesterday I had a softball game I was going to miss it so she could come over she told me to just go to my game because she was tired and still had 2 hr of work left. She surprised me and showed up at my game. Do you guys think Im just being paranoid that shes not interested anymore?

[cbad]

I'm confused. Why do you think she's not interested in you again?

[Orioles1744]

Because we dont hang out or text as much as when we first started taking.

[cbad]

But ...you're the one who decided to stop texting her.

[Orioles1744]

We still text everyday I just gave her the chance that one day I think she likes when I text her first and is use to it.

[Orioles1744]

Anyone else have any thoughts?

[Boisdevie]

Anyone else have any thoughts?

You're acting like a child. And she's probably getting bored. If you want her to be your GF then stop arsing about and ask her out on a DATE. Months of pointless texting would bore me rigid.

[Orioles1744]

We hang out 3-4 times a week and we do go do stuff.

[dem862]

You can tell she's not interested when she stops texting completely.

[Boisdevie]

We hang out 3-4 times a week and we do go do stuff.

Yeah but are you boyfriend and girlfriend? You know, the whole kissing, shagging kind of thing.

[Orioles1744]

She implied that I am her boyfriend and yes we kiss.

[surfhb2]

I don't get it? You hang out 3-4 times a week......why do you feel she's not interested? You're not married, so just relax and enjoy your time together

Yes....you're being paranoid

[Orioles1744]

Any advice to help me not be paranoid? It gets really bad I think about her all the time no matter what I do shes on my mind. If I text her and she takes awhile to text back I think what or who is she talking to that she can't text back. She gave me no reason to think this way I just do. I think Im just scared that I am going to lose her and dont know why.

[surfhb2]

Any advice to help me not be paranoid? It gets really bad I think about her all the time no matter what I do shes on my mind. If I text her and she takes awhile to text back I think what or who is she talking to that she can't text back. She gave me no reason to think this way I just do. I think Im just scared that I am going to lose her and dont know why.

Yes....take a deep breath a tell yourself that you have no reason to think this girl as no interest

[4 ratties]

Any advice to help me not be paranoid? It gets really bad I think about her all the time no matter what I do shes on my mind. If I text her and she takes awhile to text back I think what or who is she talking to that she can't text back. She gave me no reason to think this way I just do. I think Im just scared that I am going to lose her and dont know why.

Learn to calm down and quit putting this girl on a pedestal acting like she's what the planets rotate around.