If you could never be with a person you love.....

[friendlydays]

If you love someone and that person could never be yours for some reason i.e. becasue of LDR what would hurt you more?

If you love the person and the person loves you very much, you two are very compatible and great together? In short, there's a potential great relationship.

OR

If you love the person but the person tells you he/she doesn't love you to the same degree you love them?

[Fawn]

If I could never be with that person I would prefer that he wouldn't love me back. It would be a lot easier to get over it on my own, rather then having that person love me just as much and be in the same amount of emotional pain.

Either way it kinda sucks...

[friendlydays]

If I could never be with that person I would prefer that he wouldn't love me back. It would be a lot easier to get over it on my own, rather then having that person love me just as much and be in the same amount of emotional pain.

Either way it kinda sucks...

thanks for your input. i can undesrtand that. but wouldn't you loving the person that much and him not feeling the same for you worse? if the two of you would never be together but at least your love is reciprocated and you know you have love for each other that will probably never change you will always be in each other's hearts thinking about each other and will never forget each other even if you two will be with different people in the future isn't is better? a bit "consoling"? umm probably it's just emotional torture??

[Kiechi]

Oh god.

:: Waits for OV's response ::

[friendlydays]

Another scenario:

This question is for the men. What about if the case is the woman got into a tragic car accident. A doctor who saved her life and did not let her pay money becasue he got an interest with her and want to marry her. Being that what happened sucks but it's fortunate that she did not die and knowing that that guy saved her life would that help you to more accept things and help ease the pain? By looking at the positive side? Or there's no difference it would make...hurts and sucks the same?

[Junket]

Well, I'd start by posting in an appropriate sub forum.

[indigosoul]

Ya, what Frasbee said. Anyway, I'm not gonna reply to these anymore... they are ALL the same... here's the last one I replied to:

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/t7173-galaxy-crossed-what-to-do.html[/url]

Chlorines response said it all... you can't get obsessed on emotions. Get a grip. Taken is taken. Endit.

[Only-virgins]

Oh god.

:: Waits for OV's response ::

Obviously this goes to me well...to bad I dont get the question for some odd reason...what the hell is a "LDR"?

[ALovelyLady86]

I was also wondering that...

[misombra]

if you are doing survey studies shouldn't we receive some sort of compensation?...

[Fawn]

LDR - Lond Distance Relationship

lol! I want compensation!