Originally Posted by
BlueMoonSal
What kind of happy story would that be? Now compare that to this story:
So how did you guys get married, did you remind him?
''Not really, he surprised me and I didn't even see it coming but he knew from the start I wanted marriage one day. I didn't have to remind him.''
Now, see that's NOT what I'd want in a proposal. Actually, I wouldn't want a "proposal" because I don't like the idea of the man having more say in the timeline than the woman. I wouldn't like the bended knee thing or a ring presented in a box.
I'd much prefer a simple mutual discussion which could be raised by either party.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.