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    I don"t know what to do

    I met this korean guy (in korea ^^) he told me he was 35 years old and I'm 24 we really clicked so we started dating but a few days ago we were on a date and I asked him if he ever lied to me, he said yes many times. so it gets in my head and the day after i asked him to tell me what he lie about he got mad saying that i didnt trust me but eventually he said he lied about the number of his ex girlfriends and some minor other stuff that i didnt really care about. the same day though he told me that he needed to tell me something, the last lie he ever told me. In the end he confessed that he lied about his age and that he as actually 41. i was really mad because first he lied to me and second one is we have a 17 years old age difference. He says that nothing has changed for him he still has the same feelings for me but i don't know, I don't know if i can ever trust him again and I dont know how to handle the age difference thing. we havent been dating for long (only a few weeks) but i think i really like him. i mean lately we fight a lot because of his lie but i'm still happy when i get a text from him and i can't stop myself from replying.

    i don't know what to do : HELP

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    He probably didn't tell you the truth in fear of rejection. If you really like him, though, I think you should give it a try, but be cautious and see where this can take you both. Tell him it makes you uncomfortable that he's lying.

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    If this is just for fun then go for it, but if you are looking for marriage and babies you need to keep looking.

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