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    Question for guys...

    I like a guy at college and have tried to talk with him a few times so far. All my friends say a guy will start things if he is interested and that I can be too much sometimes. The few times we did speak he did'nt run away - lol - which is good I think but i'm not sure he knows how I feel. If I keep trying like this will I make him dislike me? I dont want to lose a chance by just not trying but my friends really dont think I should keep trying to talk/flirt with him!

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    do u like him or ur friends do?

    do U want him or ur friends?

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    It depends on the guy, and ti depends on you. If you come off as spastic and crazy he may think you are just scary. But if you come off as being a cool perosn then he'll come around. Anyway, be sure you speak to him as an equal and don't act skittish or anything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Choi Yi
    I like a guy at college and have tried to talk with him a few times so far. All my friends say a guy will start things if he is interested and that I can be too much sometimes. The few times we did speak he did'nt run away - lol - which is good I think but i'm not sure he knows how I feel. If I keep trying like this will I make him dislike me? I dont want to lose a chance by just not trying but my friends really dont think I should keep trying to talk/flirt with him!
    Good to see more people from England join. I suggest you just tell him.
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    Keep talking to him.
    IMO it is bollox when girls say men like the chase, maybe they do to an extent. But flirting would not put me off for certain.

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    Thats it. I am moving to England. Females approach males over there.
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    OV, i'm with you on that one. but wait, do england girls shave??

    as for choi.. .well he didn't approach you because maybe he wasn't interested in you. however now that you have spark his interest, there might be something there.

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    Thankyou so much everyone. You're very sweet people on here! ~xxx~ Just being able to speak to anyone about it is good. All I understood from my friends is that girls are not allowed to initiate anything which I already thought was silly. I'm not being overbearing I think. I'm not afraid of being rejected. I think i'll just try for it and see what happens. At least i'll lknow then. ~xxx~ Choi Yi

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    Quote Originally Posted by Illusional
    OV, i'm with you on that one. but wait, do england girls shave??

    as for choi.. .well he didn't approach you because maybe he wasn't interested in you. however now that you have spark his interest, there might be something there.

    raverboy
    Hey! It's the french that don't shave!

    Choi, hope everything works out for you dude...tte .
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    Thankyou very much! ~~xxx~~

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    Ya dawg, mad luck to ya.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiechi
    Hey! It's the french that don't shave!

    Choi, hope everything works out for you dude...tte .
    haha my bad, all white people look the same to me. they're just white.

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    I got slightly lost on those last few posts. Prolly just me! Anyhows..la.. Back to square one for me. I really think I do just try too hard!

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