Is this the way all men think?

[Steve Derekson]

This is a quote from a male friend:

"The problem is that, after years of working out the "how" of getting women, of working out the technicalities, and all the pain and suffering that entails... Everything starts to get old, and you start to hate women. You hate that you can't go up to a woman and say "Hey, I like you. I want to see you again and have sex with you". Hell, you can't even do that on date 4 or 5! From the beginning to the end, everything is part of a game.

Women become videogames, puzzles to be solved, and they stop being human beings. Communication should be enough with people. But no, with women I must play the game, and in playing the game they lose all humanity for me, up to point where I would rather turn gay."

I have found some truth to this. It may seem a bit sexist to some, but he makes some good points.

[jackbenimble]

Too a degree. I can relate his position. However, I also know for myself that position stems from a lack of confidence. And maybe a bit of missed lessons on technique in grammer school.

[dem862]

Your friend still has a lot to learn apparently.

[HDBadger]

The part about "hating" women or wanting to turn gay isn't accurate for me, but the rest of it is pretty dead on.

A friend of mine once said, "All women are crazy, you just have to find one whose brand of crazy you can tolerate."

That about sums it up.

[dickriculous]

You hate that you can't go up to a woman and say "Hey, I like you. I want to see you again and have sex with you".

That isn't because of (or at least isn't entirely or primarily because of) femininity, it has more to do with sociocultural brainwashing against human sexuality. If we weren't still being controlled by the descendants and successors of religious extremist nutjobs who thought locking the pussy away in the bible was the will of God we wouldn't have that problem.

So many guys out there have bitched and bitched and bitched about women being whores and whatnot throughout the course of several generations...what the **** did they think would happen? No shit women are more apprehensive to open their legs as a result, no shit the price of sex went skyrocketing, no shit we males often have to play these retarded games in order to get balls deep in some pussy. How is it even possible to be too blind to foresee that as a consequence? We know that 2 plus 2 is 4 don't we? We know that water is wet right? We know that if you breathe you live and if you don't you die do we not? The dynamic I described is every bit as much a basic fact of life. You slut shame, you send the price of sex skyrocketing. That's why slut shamers are dickless betas.

[VincenzoG91]

Extreme cynicism impressed me when I was 15, but now it just seems immature.

[pcmaster]

Guys who dont think they are enought think that women want them to play games with them instead of direct manly aproach. They think that they have to be something else than who they realy are.