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    Why men cheat

    Here it is ladies. The definitive guide. Looks like science thinks it's not our fault.

    http://living.msn.com/love-relationships/love-sex/why-men-cheat

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    Oh f uck, I swear I've heard it all.



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    Really? Partners of women who make more money are more likely to cheat??

    Any hypotheses why this might be?
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    Insecurity makes sense I think? The whole they don't think they're good enough, so they preemptively cheat because they think their partner will leave them mentality or something along those lines would be my guess. Or maybe the wife isn't around as much and the guy gets lonely.

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    If a guy told me that his reason for cheating on me was because he was insecure and worried about me leaving or something may go wrong , I'd really go off on him. He needs to be going off of my actions and loyalty towards him.

    Now, if someone is married and the wife isn't taking care of him or giving him sex, making sure he's satisfied and her husband is lonely and she don't care, then I can understand. No, I don't condone the cheating because its other things he can do to work on it but realistically, I get it. I feel as though a wife or gf shouldn't neglect her position because what you wont do, another chic will so don't leave room for anybody else to come in.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BackUpOrGetStng View Post
    Insecurity makes sense I think? The whole they don't think they're good enough, so they preemptively cheat because they think their partner will leave them mentality or something along those lines would be my guess. Or maybe the wife isn't around as much and the guy gets lonely.
    Those 2 reasons make sense to me. It's interesting, even though I'm a professional my SO still loves the attention I give him. Its not easy finding time for everything though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starnique View Post
    I feel as though a wife or gf shouldn't neglect her position because what you wont do, another chic will so don't leave room for anybody else to come in.
    Well, I don't know this is as true for the younger generation but certainly I have friends who are successful professionals whose husbands cheated b/c they were too busy. Of course, the men tended to be egotistical pricks. These ones in particular like the idea of a beautiful, successful career wife but still want the little lady at home cooking in the kitchen. Can't get both, unless one marries and executive chef, lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    Can't get both, unless one marries and executive chef, lol.
    I see what you did there.

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    Yep. I'm thinking Christeta Comeford.
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    Filipino's definitely know how to cook.

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    They really now how to be good nannies too. O.o
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    Wash the sand out your snatch. I was just saying I like Filipino food.


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    I'm male and don't cheat. So quit generalizing, and no, I can't count all the times I could of, it depends on the person and his/her integrity. Women cheat a lot to, so whatever

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    Quote Originally Posted by BackUpOrGetStng View Post
    Wash the sand out your snatch. I was just saying I like Filipino food.

    Don't tell me what to do. m'kay! I'm saying they make good nannies too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by okwhat2013 View Post
    I'm male and don't cheat. So quit generalizing, and no, I can't count all the times I could of, it depends on the person and his/her integrity. Women cheat a lot to, so whatever
    No one was generalizing, you dipshit. I never said all men cheat. The article just shows that scientifically, cheating is not men's fault. I never said all men cheat. The article just shows that scientifically, cheating is not men's fault when they do it.

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