(This is a long post. I apologize in advance!)
Hello ladies and gents!
Ok, so I am brand new here and I really need your guy's help! Here is the deal. I just turned 29 years old last week and I REALLY hate to admit this, but I am a virgin, big time! What I mean by that is not only have I never had sex, I've never been on a date, I've never been kissed, I've even even held hands with a girl before! I know, PATHETIC, right?
Why am I still a virgin you ask? Well, it is quite simple really. Up until last year, I really didn't give a damn that I was one. I have never really tried too hard to get with anyone. I have always been focused on other things like work, school, and hobbies. But now, for whatever reason, this whole being a virgin thing is now driving me mad! I thought that after getting out of my teenage years and early 20's that my sex drive would just fade out so I didn't have to worry about it. Boy I was wrong, so wrong! It just gets stronger everyday! If I don't get me some sex soon, I might just spontaneously combust!
So, my question is this then; how can I find a willing girlfriend? I am a pretty decent looking guy I am told and have had several women, good looking women actually, that have come onto me in the past. This can't be too difficult then, but I just don't know where to start really. For the past year I have been trying the online dating scene and have not had any luck. I have used all the sites imaginable, paid and non-paid, and although I have had many promising conversations and even several accepted dates, they NEVER go though! The women always finds an excuse to cancel our date and eventually stops responding altogether. I bet I have messaged over 3000 women in the last year and had no real luck. Online dating just doesn't work for me, period.
So, that leaves me with the real world; now what? Do I just go around and hit on women at random places? Like bars, parks, supermarkets, ect? Is that even acceptable to do or would I most likely end up with mace in the face?
The bottom line is
I will NOT be a 30 year old virgin! Within the next 12 months, I am going to get laid no matter what it takes. I don't care if I end up having to find a paid escort or something, it is going to happen THIS YEAR! Of course though, I would much rather have a girlfriend to loose it with than some paid tramp.
I have 12 months. The countdown has begun. What can you guys suggest to help me out of this bind? I am open to anything and greatly appreciate any help I can get!
Thanks,
-Max