I am experiencing a problem that is getting very frustrating. Let me tell you the whole story:
I met this girl at college about three months ago, and we have been interacting somewhat since then. She has a boyfriend that she has had for over a year and is currently living with. However, she has told me that he has cheated on her numerous times, and that there are other underlying problems (like communication problems) in the relationship. I have tried to talk to her about it, but it has been really hard. I invited her to lunch on Monday to talk, but she brought her boyfriend with her (making it a little hard to talk about it...). On top of this, she has severe abandonment issues and is seeming to sweep their relationship problems under the rug.
That leads me to my question – how do I get her to understand that the relationship she is in is unhealthy, and that she should break up with him? And is it right for me to do so? I generally don't concern myself with these problems, but it is clear to me that she has been experiencing a lot of emotional problems as a result of his cheating.
Any and all advice here would be really helpful, because I don't know what to do anymore.
And no, I am not sexually interested in her. I am an asexual, and it hasn't even come to mind (although I'm not “opposed” to a platonic relationship).