so. my girlfriend who i was living with broke up with me amonth ago. she moved all of her stuff out of our apartment within 3 days. i am completely madly in love with this girl. the reason she gave was that she thought i was verbally abusive to her a couple of times and she fell out of love with me. I was NOT verbally abusive to her. everyone i knows and knows the whole situation says i was not and that she just took it all way too sensitively. now i do admit that it doesnt matter what i think and what others think its about what she thinks. which is enough to make me now understand that even though we both knew each other for a couple years before the relationship that i cant talk to her in the relationship the same way i did out of it. in the relationship i have to talk to her in a much more loving and nourishing way. now, after the break up and this was made known to me by her i did all the promising to change, begging, pleading, apologizing, write long letters about my love for her that is typical. bad choice to do but yes typical. she ended up with someone a little more than a week after she broke up with me. so she is with a new boyfriend now. i talked to her about 2 weeks ago and she said that she still loves me just not the same. and that she wants to stay friends with me. what i have noticed is that she never contacts me first. if i contact her we talk as friends. we have hung out a couple times since the break up which was very hard for me. so.....question is, what do i do? how do i prove to her how much she means to me, how much i love her and i need her. i have done alot of soul searching the past month and tried to figure out if it was her or having her that i wanted back. i have came to the conclusion that it is her. i can live without her but i dont want to. she is the one for me.
any advice would be absolutely amazing, especially from any ladies.
thank you
jim