I'm so glad I found a forum where guys answer love questions too...
My question is: why do guys lose interest sooo fast? And I mean FAST ! A month ago I met a guy on the internet. We talked for 2 weeks and he even asked me to not delete my account until he came back for a trip. OK, I didn't delete it and then, we met in real life. It was nice, a really good date. Then, we talked on whatsapp and he told me I was a nice person to hang out with etc. But after that, when I invited him to a movie, he said he was busy that month etc. and of course, we never talked. I asked him why did this, why he said what he said, if he doesn't talk to me. he told me that he's busy etc. I left it there.
Last week, I met a guy on a bus I was travelling, we had seats next to each other. We talked for 2 hours non stop, we laughed and at the end, he asked for my phone number. He's from a different city than me. After that, he sent a message on whatsapp, we talked for an hour there and then the next day, he wouldn't answer me. I sent him a joke, but no answer. After a while, he said he was busy and that we would talk later. The SAME scenario and I don't understand why... he told me I am well educated, honest and that those are things that he appreciates in a person and he also invited me to his city several times. because I told him I never been there.
My question is how can a guy have a nice time with a girl and then just lose interest and say he is busy? I don't get it. If I were to tell these guys that I like them a lot, that I want to get married to them, I could understand why they would lose interest fast. But I was being normal, chatty etc and now...
I don't understand what's wrong? I just want to find out why and then I promise to myself that I'll never hope for love again... or for an honest and forward guy... who doesn't leave me wondering