I like to go for a beer or two, and watch a hockey or football game after work once or twice a week. I started stopping at a new place near my house about 4 months ago, and began enjoying it alot because of this bartender/waitress who works there. I go in and sit at the bar, order my drink and food, and she sits and talks with me any time shes not busy. After 5 or 6 times going in there we were having a conversation about our childhoods, and she stopped me and said she feels like shes known me forever, like she can talk to me so easily about anything. So the next time I go in I decide its time to ask for her number. Ive been in there for about 40 mins and Im getting ready to ask. Shes telling this story about her brother coming to visit her, and then she mentions her and her BOYFRIEND taking her brother out on the town. I had assumed she was single becuase we had covered alot of ground in our conversations and her having a boyfriend never came up. I was bummed out of course, but I still enjoyed talking to her when I was in there, so I just continuned on like it was nothing. A couple of weeks ago Im in there talking with her, and she asks me if I like country music. I said I do but dont really listen to it much anymore. She invites me to go out to a country dancehall with her and some of her friends on the coming thursday. I happily agreed and then the day before we are supposed to go, she tells me to meet her at her place to hang out with her and her friends and play drinking games before we go out. So I get there the next night and theres about 10 people there and everyone was really cool. We had alot of fun just talking and playing drinking games for abourt 3 hours. We headed out to the club and once we got there, she was always staying really close to me, locking arms with me, putting her arm around me, asked me to dance with her and she pulled me in really close and put my hand on the small of her back. We both acted fairly flirty through the night. Time came to go and she told to call her soon so we could hang out. 2 night later I get a text from her around 10pm asking if I wanted to go over to her place, hang out and watch a show or something. I went and it was really relaxed, we pretty much just sat and talked about anything and everything for about 3 hours. Before I left she invited me out to a halloween costume party (which we went to last night). So I show up at her place to pick up her and 3 of her friends, we had a beer and hung out. Then we go to the club, and its the same thing as the last time but more intense. She pulled me to the dancefloor and danced with me again, was holding my had and putting her arm around me, leading me away from her friends to talk to me in private, leaning in really close and whispering in my ear. On top of all this, she texts me everyday (often right when she wakes up), asks me to hang out every couple of days. She also NEVER mentions her boyfriend (who I've never met BTW) which I find odd because I don't think I know anyone in a relationship who doesn't mention their partner at least once in awhile. I've brought him up to her a couple of times and she gives a quick answer and changes the subject. This kind of thing has only happened to me once before but the girl ended up breaking up with her boyfriend so I was free to make a move. I'm just really not sure what to do about it. I'm not the type to intrude on a relationship, but I really like this girl. I'm not sure if I should tell her what I'm feeling, because if she doesn't feel a similar way, I wouldn't want to lose her as a friend. Any advice or insight would be greatly appreciated!
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