To forgive and forget or to confront, help please!

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Lol tell that to someone who has given you herpes badger. If i think someone is putting me at risk of catching a disease, killing my unborn child (if pregnant) betraying my trust and abusing my love...

If you think all that, you should just leave.

[bessieb]

I'd be very careful, you looked at his bank statement, he could and probably would see that as snooping, either let it go and realise that he hasn't done anything by contacting girls or reading the inboxes, or say something and potentially cause a break up.

[phish]

From a guy who is pretty firm about maintaining independence and 'doing you', it sounds harmless. I can imagine being in a committed relationship with a girl, and sign up for websites for fun.

If it is the case that he was just curious, he may not do anything further on the website or in the way of meeting women through it. You really don't know, I'd give benefit of the doubt, especially given how great you claim things to be going.

[Tug]

I broke down and just asked him, I couldn't live with not knowing...he apologized and said he was ashamed of himself but that he did it as sort of an ego boost. At this point I have got to give him the benefit of the doubt considering there has been no activity on the account on his part. I'm just going to be extra cautious at this point because I do absolutely realize the he could be lying. This is a classic case of "curiosity killed the cat"! I do feel much better now that I've talked to him though and put it all out in the open.

Screw that! Google the term emotional cheating, thats exactly what he's been doing. Ego boost my butt if someone showed some interest he would have jumped at the chance and you would have never known about it. Think about, what else is he hiding?