MyNA, Im assuming your wife saw the post and became angry. If you feel your wife is having an emotional affair you need to address that immediately. My g/f had several emotional affairs over the years when I found out about them I was crushed and even though I left her I constantly wonder if she took it a step further. She says she didnt but after someone lies to you for such a long time about their "friendship" you cant help but wonder how far the "friendship" went. For me it got to the point that I was always worried about who she was texting or talking to on her cell phone, it became so overwhelming that I broke up with her and moved out. Im missing her more today than I have in the past 2 months since I left but I know I could never trust her again and without trust your going to be in a relationship thats going to drive you crazy... trust me I know