Hi there, I'm new here.
I'm almost certain I just successfully killed my relationship with my girlfriend of 8 months. She's told me that the major reason was for sexual frustration but underlying is my supposed lack of intimacy, meaning I don't kiss her passionately or "touch" her, or compliment her appearance, which is odd because I can easily recall all the times I've done so. I admit never passionately kissing her, though the last time I visited her I attempted to but she turned her cheek and I don't know why. Maybe my breath was bad, my lips were chapped, I spit, I don't know.
Now me being in love with her was never in doubt, but the ability to show it was bad, though I would bring her flowers and wine and flirt with her every time we spoke on the phone. I did show it but in a non-traditional, awkward sort of way which might be why she thinks I wasn't intimate.
Another thing is that I have Asperger's Syndrome and recently I've been researching it and relationships and found that a lot relationships with Aspies don't end well, which is what I'm experiencing. I openly admitted having this mental condition a month before we officially went out, so she knows but I'm not sure she fully understands what it entails. I've read that you should sit down with your partner and discuss what it means and I even spoke with my doctor about it, so I did briefly speak with my partner about this the last time I visited but not a serious in-depth discussion because I felt that it would seem like I was shifting the blame to the Aspergers, even though that was the advice I was given.
What can I do now?