Originally Posted by
Valixy
I don't think there's right or wrong here. Some`people feel comfortable introducing their partners to their ex-es, the same way some people wouldn't mind going to a party held by their partner's ex, but I think they are a minority. Most people like to keep a certain distance to their ex-es and their partners' ex-es. It really is about taking the decision that makes you feel comfortable.
If you would like to avoid this kind of situations in the future, maybe you should speak with your girlfriend about it and also that you'd feel more comfortable if she didn't keep a close relationship to her ex-boyfriends. I know that sometimes we expect the other one to perceive us and simply do or don't do certain things but communication can avoid so much unnecessary confusion. Speaking openly about things and establishing certain boundaries together it's actually a sign of strength for each partner and as a couple too.