First of all stop saying sorry cause you are only lowering your won value and shes acting like a queen already. Next dont give a shit what shes doing. So what if someone kissed her?
"When two people kiss... They create a really long tube with @ssholes on both ends.
Cause you are being just patetic, never bring back past. Shes a young girl and just wana have fun so giving her shit or feeling like a shit wont help relationship. Once women dont get enought positive emotions they leave.
This could help you
Wow... he let me treat him this way, he let me do this to him. He is afraid to be man, if he lets me do this thing to him, what else will he let me do? Will he protect me when I need him? Maybe not, if he is afraid to put me in my place. How can he protect me from another man when I need him? He is not the secure guy I thought. He looks weak to me. I can manipulate him now to do what I want him to do. I can get away with anything now. I can do what I want. I'm in control of things now. He is not. He will jump through my hoops. I can tell him what to do. How can I take him seriously anymore when he won't stand up to me? He is not a challenge, maybe I need to look for another guy. His insecure behavior really disgusts me. He is not a man that I need. I have to let him go. I need another guy. He is gone, we are over.
Anyway man she have only that much value as you give her. Now she could hang out with her friends and tell them what what a depentand idiot you are. While womens can talk about relationship easy with other girls and let it all out straight away with ease and feel nothing we guys are not used to talk about our emotions and its piling up and killing from inside. Thats why you are making too big thing about it. Realy you shouldnt care more than she does. Otherwise again you are lowering your value and she start acting like a queen again beat you up with words and thats how they leave.
She have this huge advantage of emotional from friends or shes just not that into you(might be shes calling you ,shit, in her mind which works as natural defense mechanism). Whatever it is you want look for support at friends or counselling cause feeling like a bitch and being low confidence will not help at all.
What you did 10 months ago btw? Its important that you let it out so it feels easier.
Theres no much logic in her action and thats understandable cause women think based on emotions rather then logic. So you shouldnt try to understand her but just never take shit so she see what shes doing wrong. If you put up with her crap shes gona eat you alive without even noticing what shes doing. Its good that you love her but its important to love yourself as much and dont let her cause pain to you, dont feel quilty when shes upsed after you did the right thing. Ability to say no is key to any long relationship. Thinking bad about yourself will destroy everything around you.
In oposite this girl acts like every time she farted you gave her gift.
Know who you are and stay with that. People will rate you bend you brake you, But how strong you stand is what makes you.
And if you afraid to lose her then its gona be excatly why you lose her. Thats why dont fear or its gona happen.
Last edited by pcmaster; 07-11-13 at 06:16 AM.
Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will