Okay so this guy keeps confusing me a lot and Idk what to think about him anymore! Its so frustrating! ok, so a few months back, we both really liked each other, and texted each other constantly for weeks, but then he started obsessing over this other girl, but he kept me on a string… still keeping me around… making sure that i still liked him… And it wasn't until my friend told me what was happening that I ended it. So he apologizes and tells me he really feels bad for being a jerk to me, and i forgive him and we end on sort of good terms i guess. We became friends, even though we never see each other bc we live in different towns.
So a few months pass and a tragic event happens in my family, and then he comes and asks if i am okay, and was constantly trying to make me feel better saying he's there for me. Then he started complimenting me and we started flirting, and I started to fall for him again. We BOTH (or so i thought) started falling for each other again, and he told me a few times how beautiful he thought i was, and how much i mean to him, and he said how he has been happier then he has been in a long time ever since we started talking again. I really did think all of these things he said were genuine.
Note, i don't go to his school and we live in different towns, so i don't really know what goes on in his life. I go on his twitter and instagram just browsing around, and i find out how he's crazy about another girl all along, and not me! I was shocked by this. This honestly explains why he hasn't been texting me as much… but he still does keep contact with me, but only to flirt with me a little and almost like he is making sure he is "still interested"! If he just told me how much he cares about me and how i make him so happy, than why would he just move on at the snap of his fingers?! Am i not understanding something, or was he playing me just to stroke his ego or something?! Why would he do this?! I REALLY DID BELIEVE BY THE WAY HE WAS ACTING THAT HE DID CARE ABOUT ME… its depressing
I just need advice.. why do you HONESTLY think he is doing this, and what do you think i should do about it? I really like him but i feel like he is so far out of reach, and i don't want to waist my time on something that is not worth it.