Hi,
I am not married but I would like to get married peoples opinion.
I used to work with this married man and we became very close. I now work at a different place but we still go to work together.
He constantly pays attention to me and i admit i developed feelings for him and he knows it. We used to text each other in the evenings sometimes but nothing that i wouldn't text my mom...and not every day or all night.
A few times we went out to a pub with a mutual friend. I was certain that his wife knew that i went out with him and his friend (the other guy's wife knows). Nothing has ever happened...we are just friends.
I recently found out that his wife thinks that my feelings aren't innocent and that she doesn't want us texting. I also found out that his wife doesn't know that i went with them to the bar a few times. Why would he hide it from her?
Why does he still go with me to work? The other day we went out for lunch and i ordered a bottle of water. He told me to send it back and he will get me from his work-he gets it for half the price. He not only got me water but also a bottle of my favourite drink (not the first time he got it for me). He his constantly teasing me.
As married people do you think that his behaviour is okay? Married women-how would you feel if it was your husband. I am confused about whether his behaviour is okay or not. I know i shouldn't have feelings for a married man but i am not acting on them and won't but i am curious to know if his behaviour his ok? My married friend says if it was her husband she would be pissed!