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    Engaged -> Jealous -> Fight...

    Hi there! My GF is working in another country for 5 months. I visited her 3 weeks ago and she asked me to marry her! Everything's great but theres a guy there that is always "hiting" on her: sendind her SMS all days, phone calls before she sleeps, facebook likes all over. When I was skyping her last nigh, the guy call her and I blew up! I said to her she had to deal with it because that guy was not respecting our relatioship even though he knows about it. Well we talked agressivelly because she thinks Im not confidence enough and Im imature, that I don't trust her, but I do! She asked me to marry her for god sake! But the guy is hurting me with his low behaviour.
    I talked to her today but she kept saying I don't have to bother with anyone if I trust her really, and that she doesn't trust me anymore, she is disapointed and that this is not the 1st time it happens because of that guy.
    Last time we only made peace when I visited her, 3 weeks after the fight. I dont want to wait that much, because she only returns 2 months from now on.

    What should be my behaviour? Let her go for a while? Contact her only by facebook? Skype her withou cam? Should I put photos of us? And talk about what?
    Im compleetly lost because she all that matters to me and I want to marry her so much. Ive asked for forgiveness and said I was like trash today...but she's to pissed off!

    Thx
    Last edited by CARDIO; 20-11-13 at 02:10 PM.

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    Go **** another girl and consider yourself even.

    At the very least, call the wedding off. If that doesn't get her in gear, dump her completely and find someone else.

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    Shes having an emotional fair and shes pushing her guilt on you. Her defence behaviour is a red flag that she knows shes wrong but instead of admitting it shes trying to make you feel bad by saying "you dont trust me". Of course you dont f**king trust her coz shes giving you every reason in the book not to. Wake up man and stop being a doormat. Stoo blaming this guy. Blame your fiance. She is the one hurting you, texting this guy, welcoming all his attention and refusing to acknowledge your feelings. Break up with her. Shes about to cheat on you if she hasnt already

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