Recently due to the poor choice of words, my depression girlfriend thinks I am going to break up with her. Which ends up her overing thinking and broke up with me in the end. During the progress of breaking up, she is being very abusive and confusing at the same time. She leashes her anger at me and unintentionally or intentionally put me down with words. accusing me thing such as not know my best friend address etc etc etc. Our relationship was really good, and I mean really good. Except with her extreme low self-esteem and my slightly dominate personality, it often make her feel bad or worthless. There it seems to make sense that she shoot out all these abusing words. However,words hurt. Never in my life which I directly or behind her back say anything that are mean to her. Mostly what I did was roll my eyes or ignoring her when she is being really annoying. These actions by me might seem small but the effects on her were enhanced by her depression and eating disorder. Anyway, during the break up, the role seems to change. I want her back and I am sure deep inside she wants to too, just don't know how. We agree to meet up once again but I am not sure what to do. I am a very proud man and I honestly believe I don't deserve all these abusive and hurtful word. I want to tell her off and I know it will destroy her yet I love her too much to do that. But if I don't do that, I will surely end up feeling worthless myself and this feeling will eat me up. What should I do?