Hi everyone,
I hope all is well. I am a 25 year old female. I attend college and I work at campus part time. My job is basically computer training.
One of the professors I train is handsome, tall, well groomed, amazing, and elegant man. I am so very attracted to him. When I am working with him, I feel like I want to jump on him and kiss him and hug him ..etc..... I am never attracted to older guys, but this one is so freaking hot. He is so attractive, and he smells amazing. Oh my God he is sexy. I sometimes come up with excuses so that he comes to school and meet-I for example tell him that his issue won't be resolved unless he visits the labs and so on. I want to go out with him. How can I ask him out? And how can I make sure he is single? I know some people are married and don't wear rings and never talk about their wives.
Anyway, Am I a pervert?
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24-11-13, 08:45 PM #1
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I am in love with my 60+ year old faculty member!
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24-11-13, 08:53 PM #2
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Go for it. Just make sure you don't get in trouble job-wise.
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24-11-13, 09:24 PM #3
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No, you're not a pervert. You're just one of a zillion girls who's fallen in love with her college professor. If you approach him, he will have dealt with this scenario countless times before and will hopefully let you down gently.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
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24-11-13, 10:26 PM #4
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Pervert? Probably not. Idiot - I'd say yes.
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24-11-13, 10:29 PM #5
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Just kiss him and you will have one kiss for sure. Then later see what happens. Guy becomes colder or warmer. But things at least will be clear from then.
Touch him and if it was just a dream you will wake up.
Even if guy is not interested ge will respect you even more because of caurage. Going for what you want is never mistake. Life is short however.Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will
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25-11-13, 09:47 PM #6
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Originally Posted by RobertWQ
Thank you ...
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25-11-13, 09:47 PM #7
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No please don't say that Originally Posted by basilandthyme
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25-11-13, 09:51 PM #8
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Actually, I hug him every time I see him (I guess that is totally normal), and lately I have been hugging him for longer time ( a matter of seconds ). Originally Posted by pcmaster
Anyway, we kind of touch when we use the computer, also he lets me use his cell phone-he transfers things from his cell to his computer, so I kind of feel his hands - oh dear lord is he sexy
I cannot kiss him, I am not that bold. But I guess I will try to hint.
I don't want to marry him, I just have a physical crush which is driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! All the time it's like I wanna sit on his lap and start making out with him
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25-11-13, 09:53 PM #9
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Why idiot? Originally Posted by Boisdevie
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26-11-13, 02:24 AM #10
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Lol this is funny. I wonder if your trolling. I might believe it if he was 40 but 60... lmao
If you are being serious then get over it. Meet a guy your own age
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26-11-13, 05:41 AM #11
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Daddy issues!
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26-11-13, 07:24 AM #12
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Why do you think it's funny?! Originally Posted by michelle23
He is really good looking guy, probably better looking than you are!
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26-11-13, 07:24 AM #13
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I don't ave daddy issues, my dad and I have a really good relationship Originally Posted by Wakeup
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26-11-13, 08:14 AM #14
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Re: I am in love with my 60+ year old faculty member!
Your a young woman. Stay away from old men. Do you wana be his carer and wipe his ass for him in 5years? Originally Posted by Skeptical
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Just how good is it. O.o Originally Posted by Skeptical
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