Girl I have been Saying said I am to SMALL for here. Please Read I am Devastated

[cd32505n4]

Well everyone I am devastated.

This girl I have been dating got into an argument with me 3 days ago and she said she wanted to talk. I was in the wrong for the most part because I acted a bit crazy so I explained what was up and she said she did not know if she wanted to continue the physical aspect of our relationship. Anyway I told her I cannot just be friends and she had to make her mind up. We ended up getting back to my place where we had a few drinks and eventually we ended up sleeping together. I was weak but here is the other issue that left me feeling like absolute sh!t.

(please nobody get offended I just need to explain)

She took charge and started giving me oral sex. I than grabbed her and told her I want to have sex and she looked at me and said " I DO NOT THINK I AM TIGHT ENOUGH RIGHT NOW!" She than said "I NEED ORAL SEX FROM YOU SO I CAN FEEL YOU!" She told me that whenever we sleep together she can not feel me unless she has a few orgasms so she is not as loose.


Now guys I am not the largest man in the world but I am average (5-6 in). Basically what I am getting at is that she was clear as day insulting me to my face basically saying my Member is not big enough for here! She made me feel like absolute Sh!t. Now the fact that I am a man I still took charge and eventually slept with here but let me Tell you this: SOMEBODY WAS THERE! SHE WAS LOOSE AND SHE NEW THERE WAS A CHANCE I WOULD KNOW SOMEBODY ELSE SLEPT WITH HER!

I might be going crazy but I just could feel it. Made me feel like a little shell of a man. What does everyone else think? I feel embraced and insecure right now. I figured we had a great sexual relationship.

[michelle23]

Women come in all shapes and sizes too. She may be wider/longer down there then you.

Your theory about her sleeping with someone else may be true but that wouldnt miraculously make her looser. Its more likely her ex was bigger and thats what shes used to

Vaginas adapt over time to match the size of their partner.

Dont let this crush your confidence. You need to decide now whether you still wana be with her or not

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[cd32505n4]

Her bf was larger from what she told me. Its just now she is telling me she doesnt want a sexual relationship anymore. Kind of kills my confidence.

[michelle23]

Dump her. And dont let it crush your confidence. She sounds like a cow. Most men are average just like you. Ive average boobs. No big deal so dont make a big deal outa it just coz some bitch hurt you. The next girl will be fine with your size.

Btw this may be a hint that your not spending enough time on foreplay. In future at least 20 minutes is required the first 20 or so times till you figure out her body and how it works

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[Wakeup]

You haven't been "dating" her you've been her fk buddy who wants to date her and she date you and be exclusive. But that's the last thing she wants from you. She's still there only because she thinks you're going to snatch away the job you offered her (which you should do. You certainly don't need her stagnating you in this trance she's got you in )

Stop being a sap. Seriously. You keep starting threads about her when instead you should be backing away from her so that you get over her and you'll then be open to meeting a chick that actually wants you and isn't a manipulative shrew.

The minute she thinks you're onto her, she insults you so that you'll lose even more self-confidence because of her and her selfishness. She's using you for a human dildo and a job. Stop lowering yourself to be with her. Really... stop it now.

[cd32505n4]

Well you might be right. I told her that I had an epiphany and I was only interested in her because I was going through a hard time (lost my company, my house, etc) I was trying to fill a void. Literally 1 hour after that shes hitting me up saying that I am hurting her and she cant believe I never cared about her. I took her to breakfast today and she was more focused on the job I had for her than anything and she snuck a few I care about you and I appreciate your companionship. Shes like I wont date anyone else this jobis more important to me. I wanted to punch a wall honestly.

[ChloeGirl]

She's using you. She didn't deserve that breakfast. Stop being a pushover and cut off all contact.

[michelle23]

Ya you need to get this b**ch outa your life. Be firm and dont let her manipulate you. Just tell her you want nothing to do with her and not to contact you again. Wheres your self respect? Right now your balls are on a chain around her neck.

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[cd32505n4]

LOL I hear you. BY the way when it comes to foreplay trust me I am on point. They dont call me tongue master for nothing haha. Thats why she begs for it. Vibrating 2-3 times is what I make here do. Thats why I know she is basically insulting me about the small dick thing. The foreplay is there she should just shut up.


Anyway thanks I appreciate your help. IDK what I did but I have the power now. Shes freaking out and I can care less.

[michelle23]

Good. Now stay on that power trip till shes gone for good. Also i think it would benefit you to see a counsellor. It would help you to boost your self esteem

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[ChloeGirl]

LOL I hear you. BY the way when it comes to foreplay trust me I am on point. They dont call me tongue master for nothing haha. Thats why she begs for it. Vibrating 2-3 times is what I make here do. Thats why I know she is basically insulting me about the small dick thing. The foreplay is there she should just shut up.


Anyway thanks I appreciate your help. IDK what I did but I have the power now. Shes freaking out and I can care less.

She's only freaking out because she know this joy ride on you is about to come to an end. It's still all about her. Whatever you do, don't give in. Stay away from her.

[cd32505n4]

I agree I think she knows I am not giving in anymore. Shes hoping I call or text. She told me last night to leave her shit outside so I did. Guess what she didnt pick it up. She knows once she does this its over so shes playing the waiting game hoping ill give in. According to her she has no time. I know she has to pick up her son but she could easily swing by with her son if her stuff was on the porch. she woudnt even have to talk to me. However not one text from her today besides that. Do you agree guys shes hoping I back down?

[Wakeup]

Uhm, do youself a favor and quit hoping that she will.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

She will give in. She wants you bad, she's just playing hard to get.

[Wakeup]

Oh brother ... lol